21st-Century Family Life in Fiction

How the Light Gets In     Joyce Maynard     (2024)  This novel is a sequel to Maynard’s 2021 Count the Ways, and it helps to know the basics of that plot. In Count the Ways, the many sad and shocking events that punctuate Eleanor’s life are traced from her childhood, in the 1950s and 1960s, into the 2000s. Eleanor balances her career as an artist and children’s book author with her role as wife to her woodworker husband, Cam, and as mother to their three children. In How the Light Gets In, Maynard follows Eleanor from her late 50s into her 70s, with many flashbacks to events of previous decades. Family interactions are always complicated, and the three generations of Eleanor’s family have more than their fair share of struggle and misfortune, including estrangement between parent and child, terminal illness, career failure (and success), disability, gender dysphoria, and a long-distance affair. All this takes place against the backdrop of the tumultuous American political scene of the years 2009 to 2024. I found some of the subplots, especially that long-distance affair, farfetched, but I loved the characters so much that I gave the novelist a pass. If you delight in reading about the everyday lives of people doing their best within their imperfect families, Maynard’s work will please you. Incidentally, the light gets in through the cracks.

Truly Madly Guilty     Liane Moriarty     (2016)  I could not get my head around Moriarty’s 2014 bestseller, Big Little Lies, but I thought I’d try this subsequent novel of hers. In Truly Madly Guilty, Moriarty takes us inside three upper-middle-class marriages and inside the heads of the six adults at a friendly backyard barbecue that goes horribly awry. (The setting is Sydney, Australia, where the inhabitants are really partial to barbecues, but it could be any industrialized country.) For more than 200 pages, I read with infuriating impatience, as the “incident” at this barbecue is revealed ever so slowly in brief flashbacks. But after the reveal, the tale is livelier. All the characters have to come to grips with their feelings of guilt and with the way that this guilt affects their personal relationships. The dialogue is realistic, as are the well-drawn characters. I especially loved Oliver, the sensible, nerdy accountant, and Dakota, the bright, bookish ten-year-old daughter of one of the couples. Maybe the wrap-up of the plot is a little too pat, but it worked for me.

 Show Don’t Tell     Curtis Sittenfeld     (2025)  I’ve read and reviewed most of Sittenfeld’s work (click here), and I’ve rarely been disappointed. She portrays 21st-century life candidly, especially in the way that she uncovers the emotions of women—as wives, mothers, sisters, friends, lovers, students, businesspeople, professionals, artists. In this latest collection of short stories, Sittenfeld does not veer away from her raucous, funny approach to fiction, so expect explicit sex and cringey toilet scenes. But don’t expect tidy endings. Many of the stories present the characters at decision points in their lives, and the reader doesn’t always find out what the decision is. I noted also the author’s fascination with the way in which wealthy and famous Americans handle their wealth and fame, including thinly disguised portraits of living billionaires.

 

Sure It's [Fill in the Blank], But . . .

Sure it’s alternate history, but . . .

Rodham     Curtis Sittenfeld     (2020)  What if Hillary Rodham had not married Bill Clinton in 1975? This alternate version of Hillary’s life starts out hewing pretty closely to well-known facts—college at Wellesley, law school at Yale, where she meets Bill. But then it takes a different trajectory, with Hillary as an unmarried law professor and politician and Bill on another path also. Throughout, the portrayal of Hillary is, for me, totally believable, and the dialogue is especially realistic. Take a fun ride through the ”what ifs” with Rodham.

Sure, it’s time travel, but . . .

This Time Tomorrow     Emma Straub     (2022)  On the day that Alice turns forty, she’s reassessing her life goals—and getting very drunk. Unexpectedly, she’s transported back to her sixteenth birthday, in 1996. I don’t usually read time travel novels, but Alice is so endearing that I went with the premise. And Straub is writing a love letter to New York City as much as she’s exploring family bonds and the quandaries of aging.

Sure, it’s melodramatic, but . . .

When We Were Young     Richard Roper     (2021)  Two men who are turning thirty get together fourteen years after an acrimonious argument separated them. Joel is a successful TV comedy writer in London, with a glamorous actress as his girlfriend. Theo considers himself a failure, both in his career and in his relationships; he lives in a shed in his parents’ back yard. The melodrama and emotion are heavy here, but the insight into the hearts of these two young Brits is worth the read.

 

Sure, it’s got lots of tragedy, but . . .

Count the Ways     Joyce Maynard     (2021) 

The many sad and shocking events that punctuate Eleanor’s life are traced here from her childhood in the 1950s and 1960s up to nearly the present day. But I didn’t find this book depressing. Eleanor balances her career as an artist and children’s book author with her role as wife to her woodworker husband, Cam, and mother to their three children. Her musings on motherhood, in which she delights, touched me profoundly. The characters surrounding Eleanor are also deftly portrayed.